Parenting a child with autism is a journey full of unique challenges and wonderful, unseen achievements. As parents, the world can be daunting at times, especially when others do not view things the same way your child does. But let this truth sink in your heart, “Your child is not broken.” They simply perceive the world differently and this distinction is a strength.
“Autism is not a disability, it’s a different ability.” — Stuart Duncan
The above quote puts what many consider as a limitation into a fresh light. Your child’s abilities may not always align with cultural expectations, but they are genuine, valued, and meaningful. Their distinct manner of thinking, feeling, and expressing love contains beauty that is frequently overlooked by people who only see through a standard lens.
Parents who are dealing with lengthy diagnosis, therapy sessions, and future questions should know that they are not alone. The Bible tells us that everyone is “fearfully and wonderfully made.” That includes your child, with all of their individuality, quirks, and quiet brilliance. As you advocate, guide, and nurture, you are demonstrating unconditional love and unwavering strength.
In the eyes of God, autistic child is not a mistake but a masterpiece. His grace is sufficient for every need, and His love surrounds every struggle. Children with autism are not ignored by God but they are uniquely created with purpose and value. Anchoring your identity and your child’s worth in this reality can provide calm, strength, and hope in the face of adversity.
Parenting a child with autism is not a diversion from a fulfilling life but it is a call to deeper love, patience and grace. There will be difficult days, but also days of wonder. Celebrate the modest milestones, quiet breakthroughs, and moments that others may overlook. You are seen, as is your child, and you both have a purpose that is unfolding in lovely, unexpected ways.
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